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How to create a home altar for deity worship

how to make a home altar beautiful worship of the lord

Discussing all aspects of home altars and deity worship is possibly my most favorite thing!

I’m going to walk you through some ideas about HOW to set up your own altar, covering practicalities like, the actual physical altar, and also the requirements for your space and family zone.

how to make home altar for deity worship radha krishna with a beautiful background painted of brindvana
Radha and Krishna in a special corner nook with walls most gloriously painted with scenes of the cows and hills of Braja

While a temple room at the heart of the home is a dearly held aspiration for most devotees, not all of us are in the situation where this is possible.

Should you have such a room set aside for worship then wow! That’s so nice!

home deity worship altar with small curtains radha krishna
This altar is located in a small corner nook and can be closed off using curtains. They stand on a fairly simple chest of drawers which has also got storage. The nook is capped with a decorate filigree piece of woodwork

Your altar may not even need curtains, just a space to meditate and a door for privacy.

Here’s some absolutely gorgeous open altars, you can pretty much take your inspiration from temple worship where they close off the actual temple, not so much the altar.

Gorgeous Open Altars for Home Deity Rooms

My mother is caring for a child sized Krishna deity, and she has a room which is *mostly* set aside for Krishna. It also functions as the first room of the house, so Krishna’s half is screened off using a series of Chinese folding screens.

Krishna stands on a charmingly ornamental bureau, a former dressing table which is so marvellously suitable because it has two little inbuilt platforms on which her much much smaller deities of Lord Chaitanya and Lord Nitayananda stand, and on the other site, her Spiritual masters in 2-D & 3-D forms.

Krishna in open temple room, standing on an art nouveau dressing table with raised platforms

The Humble Home Altar Options

If like me you are in a humble house where space is limited, you may find that you need an altar solution that you can close while normal daily life is conducted.

For us, our altar has always been located either in a bedroom or in the living area.

We used to have a wrapped bundle of pictures of our lords to worship which we unwrapped and set up on our table when we had our puja.

This simple and portable altar works really nicely to worship 2-D deities (pictures in frames) and maybe that’s all you you will ever need.

I’m going to attempt to cover the options available to you when you create a permanent altar set up for 3-D deity forms of the lord, or even 2-D deities where you want a permanent location.

Firstly, consider the size of your deities. Do you have a tiny little 9″ form of Krishna? You may only need a very small shelf or cupboard.

A Shelf or Box Shelf Altar

Have you thought about a wall mounted shelf? You can get an abundance of different types of boxed shelves that would be very easy to either leave open or cover with a cloth when not worshipping Lords.

Altars with Doors

My sister has a 12″ deity of Krishna and has repurposed an absolutely charming painted Indian cupboard and turned it into the perfect altar for their small home.

The cupboard is painted with delicate depictions of Sri Radha Krishna & very Rajasthani in style.

To repurpose it as an altar, they removed the internal shelf, creating more height.

Krishna deity stands on a little platform, and below are her 2D forms of Lord Chaitanya

I recently picked up a charming cabinet with the same sort of designs, and intend to repaint it myself.. so gorgeous! My daughters little Krishna Balaram will fit in it so nicely. For now, it serves as a sidetable in our room.

The Cabinet Conversion – lockable!

My own Lords are 21″ or so inches, and I have set up a very nice cupboard – altar conversion which I’m quite happy with.

how to make a home altar from a cabinet

We live in a tropical (read- mostly hot!) climate, and I wanted to have lots of breezy airflow on the stiflingly hot days of summer.

My first altar was technically a wooden converted Tv Cabinet. You might not remember, but in the past, TV had this massive back, and everyone wanted to hide them away, along with the dvd players, in cabinets. So there are a lot of old T.v. cabinets around, largely from Bali, where they have slatted door style or some other design.

We would have to sit or kneel on the floor to care for Them, and there was not much storage.

Tto dress and bathe my Gaura Nitai deities (which I do daily), we would kneel or squat on the floor. This started getting more difficult for me, so I started thinking about having an altar which I could stand at, while preparing my Lords for their morning bath and dressing.

For reasons of availibility and economy I eneded up getting nearly the same type of cabinet, just a little wider and a lot taller!

It was brown wood when I bought it, and over the course of a rather painful week, I painted it white. Many adventures to tell about the home altar conversion journey!

I’m still extremely satisfied with it, I love standing to look after them!

A further benefit of this height is that one can stand up and have kirtan and worship the deities.

While a shorter altar you may not be able to see the Lord if you are standing, requiring sitting.

While my altar is perfect for standing, if you are going to sit and worship then you find that you can see them better from a little distance, or from a low chair.

Got babies?
Then baby you need lockable doors!

Not keeping your lords locked in, but lock out those naughty little fingers!

If lockable doors aren’t your thing, the be prepared to constantly swoop on Questing Fingers! Alternately, you could have an altar that was out of reach.

This style of altar works really well, and another friend has the same lovely altar which she painted a strong blue. With lots of young babies it is great to have lockable doors and an out of reach altar top!

My friend in USA has this wonderful Radha Krishna she worships – scroll through to see her simple cabinet, repurposed into the wonderful world of Krishna!

https://www.instagram.com/p/BT_-VTEhm53/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

With two levels, she can accommodate her Radha Krsna deities on the top level and further forms on the lower level.

Another idea is a tall and narrow cabinet, if it’s just you who needs to see the Lord! See my sisters absolutely lovely cupboard for selfish viewing of Krishna! hehe this is a view for x1

https://www.instagram.com/tv/B1bTdO7hmFw/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Not quite as narrow, but shallow and with lots of room for my mums tiny deities, she used to use this shallow but tall cabinet. For the same reasons as me she wanted deities you could stand up and worship, and care for dress without sitting on the floor.

https://www.instagram.com/p/BjlI2JCAftu/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

I often still suggest various altar types, and there’s nothing I love more than a good altar hunt – I’m proud to say I have been instrumental in assisting many friends find an altar /cupboard to suit their requirements!

Look for vintage

Here’s a few of the cabinet or cupboard styles I think would make gorgeous closed altar conversions:

When you are looking, first order your thoughts:

  • size
  • depth
  • lockable doors or curtains?
  • style?
  • Light/Airflow
  • budget!
  • Babies?
  • Standing or sitting

Now lets go through these one by one.

Size: Do you live at the top of a decent set of stairs? Do you have friends or family who don’t mind you calling upon them to rearrange furniture or lift/move your gear? (I’m permanently renting, and every single item in my house is intentionally lightweight & portable with the ONLY exception being my Altar – but it’s on skid pads so I can push it around the living room at will!)

Depth/ Dimensions: Requirements for your deities. My deities need room to stand and lay on the altar. At night time we pull out their beds and lay them down, the 2d frames get tucked to the back of the altar to make way.

Lockable doors/ or Curtains? This will probably depend on the style of altar you get, and whether you need to keep out young fingers! If you are happy to use curtains than you can easily repurpose a bookshelf as an altar space.

Style: You may want to consider your space. Do you want something that discretely blends into your layout without drawing attention to itself, something more western in design, or chinese/asian? Are you hankering after an actual domed style temple (I did! For many years!). Create a mood board – Pinterest is Incredible as aspirational research tool – check out my many boards here:

Light/Airflow: This is kind of a subrequirement of the Style- one will dictate the other. For me it is important to have airflow and breeze in my altar, so the slatted doors work really well. Another type that would work is carved lattice work or special screen style. To add actual electrical lights to the altar, consider whether you need to make some holes or can use pre-installed electrical holes as is often put into media cabinets. You may also just use little battery operated candles or real candles while you are offering (Common sense would dictate never leave real lit candles unattended!)

Budget: After working through your style preference, you will have a better idea of where to source the items for your use. If you are getting a cupboard style altar, you can either buy brand new, or you can search the online second hand sites. I find that Facebook Marketplace along with resources like Craigslist and Gumtree (in australia) are great sources for 2nd hand furniture (refer to search terms above).

Babies? Better consider keeping the altar OUT OF REACH and if possible, Lockable! Cos those crawlers quickly turn into toddlers! Grasping fingers can mean disaster for your sacred altar space.

Standing or Sitting: This is relevant to the height of your altar. Do you have bad knees that make getting up and down difficult or painful? Do you want to be able to stand and worship your deities? Take into account these factors when you choose your Size & Style.

Everything is so interconnected in these choices that you might get lost – so why don’t you start off by seeing what is available!

Keep watching for more ideas on decorating INSIDE your altar!

diy altar decor lighting using silver morroccan lamps for a krishna altar lights with power plug cords and switches
My WOW! DIY Altar Decor – Lighting I found a solution that works really well for me with my diy lighting for altar, and suits my decor aesthetic – to me it’s wow!

If you need deep altar, some of the search terms you might try are:

Tv cabinet
Cabinet
Hutch
Wardrobe
Cupboard
Armoire
Media Cabinet
Kitchen Hutch

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Deity Worship – caring for Krishna

Nitai Gaur deities sita's lords raised arms chanting and dancing deities beautifully dressed and decorated with flowers and wigs

Looking after the Lord is pretty sublime. What nicer activity is there than caring for Krishna?

In this day and age there are no hard and fast rules that you need to follow to look after deities of Nitai Gaura or Krishna.

While the nectar of devotion does outline offenses against deities because we have become so far from able to observe all the specific ins and outs it is better for home deity worship to instead understand very practical considerations.

The rules and regulations if you look at them objectively are all there to guide us into nicely caring for the deities, as we would a guest whom was most valued.

If you keep that in mind, then it is very simple to provide the same intention of worship for Krishna and Gaura Nitai. Then even if we are not perfectly correct we are still sincerely trying to be pleasing by establishing a relationship of love.

A lot of times my friends ask in desperation how to look after deities! Especially now, when I do a lot of instagram posts about deity clothes, deity painting, and so on. By no means am I an authority, so all I can share is what I learnt from my dear mother in growing up in how she cared for her deities and so I am happy to offer at least that example, as well as my own understanding on the WHY, that might help inform your decisions when you are not exactly sure what is the pleasing choice.

The most important I would suggest is keeping your practice regular, so that the Lord knows when he is going to eat, bathe, dress, sleep.

You do not have to institute a temple like regime at home, but you should daily visit Krsna and offer Him something, or what is the point of inviting Him to inhabit this archa vigraha form and accept your worship?

The wonderful reason that we are trained in deity worship and adopt it is because it gives us the opportunity to develop a very real loving and caring relationship with the Lord. Whether it is Nitai Gaura or Gopal Krishna the intention is the same. Learn to serve with love*.

There are no hard and fast rules – but you may, depending on the type of deity you have, wish to offer the Lord baths, fresh clothes, & a bed to rest in, along with food, flowers, water or arotik.

To give a practical example, this is my regime of caring for my Nitai Gaura, and my role model is my mother, who has very wonderfully cared for her beloved Gaura Nitai for the past decades. I remember their installation when I was a child as the most incredible event! It was amazing to me and I still vividly remember the sounds, textures, sights – Beautiful deities standing in glowing red translucent bowls being poured over with ghee, rosewater, and the one which really astonished me was yoghurt… more later on what you can do to install your deities.

My deity worship practices:

I bathe before I visit my lords, and ring a bell to alert them that I am coming to see them. I open the altar doors pay my respects and request that they please arise and take their bath.

With prepared warm water in a jug scented with drop of rosewater, I ask them to step into their big bath, “Please step into your bath now my dear Lord Chaitanya”,  and undress them. Pouring the water nicely over the body of the Lord I then take a nice cloth and dry them, “Please step out of your bath now my dear Lord”, before dressing them again for the day.

Once dressed I used to show them their own beautiful reflection in a mirror but it broke and I haven’t replaced it yet…

Then we offer food and have a kirtan with arotik & gurupuja.

I leave lights on for them in the evening and offer them dinner with more kirtan, and then before I go to sleep I invite them to take their rest (usually I say, “please take your rest now my dear Lord Chaitanya/ Nityananda) lay them down (physically placing them in beds) after removing their ornaments and dressed only in the dhoti from the day, cover them with their blankets and lights off.

My mother also reads them a passage from scripture for their pleasure once her Lords are resting and before the lights go out. Such a nice practice!

It’s nicer to have specific pajamas! And dress them in that… I used to completely undress them to put them to bed (it’s very hot here in Australia, and they use only a sheet in summer and a sheet and light blanket in winter) but then I was concerned that they would become cold while waiting for their bath (They stand up out of bed first and I put the beds away to allow room for the bath).

I do not have a specific time which I wake them up or put them to rest or offer dinner, it flows with our family life, but usually I wake them up at 6am and then in bed between 9-11pm. The breakfast offering is before 8am because after that we are getting ready for school. Sometimes I will simply offer fruit, sometimes make it special.

Now it doesn’t have to be this full on, or it could be more so! Some people change their deities garments monthly, or only on appearance days, or every weekend. Some people are far more elaborate than I am! They might be very practiced at having exact times to attend the deities, but in our family we do what we can, and what we can do is care for Krsna like another of the family members, so we do our best and pray that it will be enough.

Marble deities are very fragile, and usually one will not move them about on the altar. Instead of actually laying them down to rest, one can prepare a bed for them, and invite them to take their rest upon the bed. (not physically placing them into the bed).

The most important aspect of worshiping deities of Krishna and Nitai Gaur is to remember that what they appreciate the most, what we can offer them, is the Holy Name. Having an altar there and plonking food down and paying obeisances and moving away… it’s good that you are offering your food but what Krsna enjoys is hearing His names! So better to streamline your deity care, and offer more kirtan with love.

This is my humble attempt to share my practice with you, and offer some practical advice on daily application of deity worship. Please remember it is a relationship between you and Krishna – offer with love and don’t stress out.

Things that we can do to be considerate:

Wash our body before visiting the lord.

Wash our hands before touching the lord or His paraphernalia (his arotik tray, clothes, food, etc)

Be attentive to the Lord while the altar is open or uncovered (don’t conduct other conversations, ignore him, subject the deity to anything unpleasant like nasty noise(Screaming kids!) or fighting.. etc Sometimes it is necessary to pause and gently guide your children before the Lord, don’t freak out it happens when you are raising kids, all the more reason to give your guidance in the most appropriate way with the well-being of your kids in mind).

Offer the lord only vegetarian food (duh, sorry, I just put it in because you know… just in case).

When offering the Lord water to bathe in – give Him fresh clean water that you haven’t put your hands in – the water should be nice and fresh. I get the tap water to the right temperature on my wrist before filling a jug.

Give the Lord a nice sitting place (put some effort into decorating the room of the Lord – this one is fun! You will do this naturally anyway)

Give the Lord a nice resting place (that bed for night time?)

Offer the Lord various refreshments thoughtfully

Offer kirtan for His pleasure..offer Him His own Holy Names with love!

*Don’t worry-  Krishna will help guide you from within your heart, and externally so you may refine your deity worship and offerings… sometimes (ok often) when I am preparing a little offering to my Lord I get the inspiration.. oh it would be nicer if you also offered…

We can get inspired by visiting other nice devotees and see what they do to worship their Lordships too! I know there is just SO MUCH MORE that can be done, but if like me you are in family raising stage of life you probably need to keep things simple, or just need some inspiration to get started.

I hope that my humble thoughts on this will not offend the more learned, and if I am mistaken then please feel free to correct me.

Love,

Sita